22/11/2011
David Anderson
HI DUNCAN, I HOPE THIS HELPS A BIT
DAVID
$200.00
08/12/2010
Muffin Break
$15.00
07/12/2010
muffin break
$35.00
04/12/2010
Duncan Woods
About time I made a donation myself! Thanks to all who have sponsored me :) I'm already thinking about the next goal!
$100.00
02/12/2010
MARY HELEN REDDINGTON
Well done Duncan. Love from Helen and Tom xxoo
$100.00
02/12/2010
Muffin Break
$10.00
01/12/2010
Sensible Sentencing Trust
$15.00
01/12/2010
Ngarie from Next door
$25.00
01/12/2010
Eastgate Raffle
$14.00
01/12/2010
Muffin Break
$70.00
01/12/2010
John Key Drawing
$230.00
01/12/2010
John McFedries
$100.00
30/11/2010
Simon, Leyanne and Sophie Philp
Congratulations Duncan
$75.00
26/11/2010
Samson Family Samson Family
Duncan, you are an amazingly generous and inspirational person. Our thoughts are with you.
$50.00
25/11/2010
Glenn Ryder
This is an inspiration to us all.
$100.00
24/11/2010
Robyn Johnston
All the best Duncan. If you can imagine it , you can achieve it. If you can dream it, you can become it.
$20.00
23/11/2010
Greenhalgh Family
$20.00
23/11/2010
Muffin Break
$20.00
23/11/2010
Tamara Moore
Aroha for you and darling Nayan. I wish you the kind of run that lifts your spirits and brings you to the light at the end of the tunnel. xxx
$20.00
23/11/2010
angelcare preschool
Duncan good luck
All our love & support from Val,Dave & team at angelcare.
$100.00
22/11/2010
Muffin Break
More donations collected at Muffin Break.
$25.70
22/11/2010
Trade Me
Money received from auction of a signed Si and Garry CD.
$20.00
22/11/2010
Eastgate Raffle
More towards the raffle!
$126.00
21/11/2010
Ed & Brigitte Duncan
Good luck Duncan. We will be thinking of you!!
$100.00
21/11/2010
Jacob Woods
Love you Dad from Jacob
$12.00
21/11/2010
D B Rich
$40.00
21/11/2010
Eastgate Raffle
Eastgate Mall kindly donated $100 worth of vouchers. So far 44 tickets sold!
$88.00
21/11/2010
Trade Me
Money Raised from the Auction of Roaring Forties. Thanks to Gary McCormick for donating this book.
$45.00
21/11/2010
Mark Sutton
A donation received from a friend of my Father's
$100.00
21/11/2010
Muffin Break
Donations collected via the Crossing Muffin Break.
$28.30
18/11/2010
Patrick Hosford
From Pat and Tina
$50.00
18/11/2010
Francois Sauvageot
Good luck with the John Key's drawing auction on TradeMe! And with the run of course. You are very courageous, Duncan, and an inspiration to all. Bravo!
$10.00
17/11/2010
Helen S
All the best for the challenge ahead.
$20.00
17/11/2010
Anonymous
God bless you and your family. xoxox
$50.00
17/11/2010
Anonymous
$50.00
12/11/2010
Julia Hooper
$40.00
10/11/2010
Monique Dolan
$20.00
09/11/2010
Ministry of Education
A donation collected from a friend of mine who works for the Ministry of Education
$85.00
09/11/2010
David Gordon
A very generous donation from the Father of one of the students I work with.
$100.00
05/11/2010
Anonymous
We'll be thinking of you on the 28th. Good Luck and May the Force be with you.
$200.00
05/11/2010
Maxwood Manufacturing Ltd
$500.00
04/11/2010
Fraser and Anthea Liggett - O'Sullivan
Dunc, all our support and best wishes for the challenge.
Love Anthea and Fraser
$50.00
02/11/2010
Anonymous
This is a wonderful thing that you are doing to honour Nayan and to give support to others. If youve set out to change the world and feel that you cant acheive that, dont worry, you already have made an impact on the lives of many people. All the best. :-)
$100.00
31/10/2010
Clarissa Lupton
I am so moved by your powerful story of forgiveness and compassion. Nayan is smiling down on you and I am grateful to have watched your story. Thank you for filling my heart today~ With love, Clarissa
$100.00
30/10/2010
Richard Stevens
Good work Duncan
$20.00
29/10/2010
Melissa Moore
$40.00
29/10/2010
Anonymous
It will ease. You will never forget , but it does change and get 'easier"
$20.00
29/10/2010
Raewyn Morris
You and your family are truely inspirational. There is no doubt your son would have been a great man because you are obviously amazing parents, with unbelievable courage and kindness. All the very best.
$50.00
28/10/2010
Angela Millar
In memory of your beautiful son. His laughing photo on your fundraising page is the most fantastic thing. He must have been truly wonderful.
$50.00
28/10/2010
Duncan Woods
A Donation given to me Jane. Much appreciated.
$20.00
28/10/2010
Justin Soong
Go hard, go strong, Kia Kaha Duncan!
$20.00
28/10/2010
Brendan O'Keefe
I admire your courage. Just remember to pace yourself and don't think about how long you have to go.
$100.00
28/10/2010
Anonymous
Truely brave and inspirational!
$50.00
28/10/2010
Anonymous
You are an incredible person.
$20.00
28/10/2010
Kirsty McMillan
Good luck Duncan - you are extremely inspiring!
$30.00
28/10/2010
Nicole Meldrum
you and your family's conduct is an inspiration.
$200.00
27/10/2010
Jane Bryony-Shaw
Stephen and I will be with you in our thoughts and in our hearts every step of your way. We greatly admire your strength and determination. We send you very much love and may you keep achieving all that you set out to do.
$100.00
12/10/2010
Anonymous
$20.00
09/10/2010
Patricia Woods
Good luck Duncan. You will always have my support. The courage you and Emma have shown since the accident has been amazing. Nayan would be proud of both of you. Will love him for always will love him forever. Mum
$100.00
04/10/2010
Joanne Bell
Duncan, my support is always with you..run for Nayan, run for your family and run for yourself!
$30.00
04/10/2010
Christine Brennan
Duncan. Full support from our family for your effort and this cause. Best wishes, Karina, Heather, Christine & Paul.
$50.00
03/10/2010
Chris Cooke
$100.00
01/10/2010
Cheryl Wilson
You are an inspiration. Hope the training and event go smoothly for you!
$30.00
01/10/2010
rayna mclellan
good wishes for this project
$30.00
27/09/2010
Chris & Gerald Stanbridge
What courage to find the energy and motivation through such a sad and enervating time. Lots of love
$20.00
26/09/2010
Jamie Hayde
You can do it!
Good on ya Bro.
You guys are always in our thoughts.
Blue Skies,
Jamie.
$30.00
23/09/2010
Charlotte Philp
Good on ya Duncan! What a fantastic thing to be doing, but to be doing it for Nayan, makes it EXTRA special...Sending lots of love, support and encouragement! xox
$40.00
14/09/2010
Meredith Truesdale
Good on ya Duncan, we think what you're doing is fantastic and we wish you the best of luck! Meredith & Phil Truesdale
$50.00
10/09/2010
Cameron Woods
$20.00
10/09/2010
Mary Mckay
I think you are amazing. All then very best!
$30.00
09/09/2010
Nick Hanafin
Great cause, good luck!
$20.00
07/09/2010
Brian Woods
This is a great thing to do in the memory of my beautiful grandson.
$60.00
07/09/2010
Rhys Jones
Good luck Duncan! I am proud to call you a friend. You and Emma have shown so much courage and forgiveness that you are true pillars of society!!
$100.00
05/09/2010
Emily Holmes
Way to go Duncan!
Dont lose your focus.
$50.00
04/09/2010
Dawn Milman
I will be cheering you on from my couch in Vancouver... All the best and loads of love to you all. xo Dawn
$75.00
03/09/2010
Claire Quinn
Good luck with the challenge Duncan! You have already made a huge difference in many people's lives through your role as a teacher. Something which I will always be so thankful to you and Braden for is Challenge Zone, which was a life-changing experience in my own son's life. Thank you so much - it is a privilege to now be able to support you in your challenge.
$50.00
03/09/2010
Kristiann Allen
Can't think of a better way to focus it all, Duncan. We're with you (or more likely with Emma with a coffee and Timbits on the sidelines, eh!)
Kristi, Jon, Max and Sabina in Canada
$50.00
03/09/2010
Coral Forbes
We are supporting you, Emma and Jacob. Not only financially but also with friendship and much love.
$25.00
03/09/2010
Stacey Puha
nice work Duncan - good luck and go for gold! tell that Emma to cut down on the doughnuts on the sideline too xx
$10.00
02/09/2010
Paula Tucker
Hi Duncan, Jamie's sister here....our thoughts are with you and your family. xx You can thank Jo for sending me to your website.
$50.00
02/09/2010
Michelle James
Hey Dunc. Such a great cause and awesome motivation. We're all behind you here. Love Anton, Michelle & girls
$65.00
01/09/2010
Anna van den Bosch
$10.00
31/08/2010
jacinta pink
keep it up, ur very inspiring :D
$15.00
31/08/2010
Rebecca Labram
Good luck Duncan, it looks like lots of work but for such a worthy cause! What a wonderful way to honour Nayan. We are right behind you and sending love and wishes for all the strength and endurance you will need for this challenge. xx
$50.00
31/08/2010
sarah grant
$20.00
31/08/2010
Nicholas Bradshaw
Hey Dunc, all the best for the marathon. My thoughts are with you and Emma.
Cheers,
Nicholayas from the Himalayas
$20.00
31/08/2010
Anonymous
Well done, good luck
$20.00
31/08/2010
Jean Sandham
Wishing you success. My thoughts and best wishes are with you and your family. Love Jean xxxx
$10.00
31/08/2010
Dave & Ms. Yeda Arscott
We are truly inspired by you & Emma. We are sending you our positive vibes and wish you well on Day One (and every day after).
$50.00
30/08/2010
Colleen Simpson
Never underestimate what a father's love can do!
$30.00
30/08/2010
April Sweeney
How awesome of you to do this for your son. I hope you find peace.
All the best xoxo
$20.00
30/08/2010
michelle cahill
Go Duncan! you can do it! x
$20.00
30/08/2010
Renea Mackie
Go Duncan!
$20.00
30/08/2010
Anonymous
You are an inspiration to those around you. Good luck!
$30.00
you're a great man duncan, very inspiring and im full of admiration for you. keep up the training and all the best for your run
Thanks for kind thoughts and contribution Sarah. :)
Wow its amazing to see donations coming in already, thanks so much to all of you!
i cant see my donation :(((( i donated it on 31.08.2010 and its come out of my account but its not up here
Hey Sarah, In my list of donations your's is showing. LBF seem to have 2 categories of donation online and offline. Your's is categorized as offline? The info I have on this says it can take more than 48hrs to be confirmed and that once this happens it will be added to my profile page. I'll keep an eye on it over the next couple of days and if nothing changes will ask Mal about it. Thanks so much for your support of me in this undertaking. Seeing the donations come in, knowing it is for such a great cause and knowing how proud Nayan would have been has given me my first positive feelings since the accident.
Matt and I are so happy that you have found a way to heal from this horrible tragedy. More than that, your hard work is helping others...you are truly a hero, Duncan. Nayan will never be forgotten and will always be loved. Best wishes from Coral, Matt and Eden Forbes in Canada xox
Your amazing and that is a truely amazing thing you are doing i wish you all the best with you journey and hope all is well much love xx
Im sure i donated $20 but can't see it. Not a big deal so long as you have it. All the very best x
Hi April, thanks for your donation, Sarah posted a similar comment. Your donation is showing on my sponsorship summary page, but as it is considered an "off line" donation is awaiting confirmation by the LBF. Once confirmed it is my understanding that it will show on this page. Thanks again.
donations are coming in thick and fast duncan. last time i looked it was $280 now look, its amazing. im so proud of you duncan. sarah g
Thanks Sarah :) I've been surprised by how quickly i've gotten to my target. There is about $400 in offline donations not yet showing, yours included. I have asked Mal about these and he has contacted LBF. So should have some more info soon.
Training is going well for me, struggled a little with my long run this week, but it has been a bit of a hectic time here in chch so probably went into it a little tired. Had a good short run today, took close to 2 minutes of my 4km time!
Big thanks, again, to everyone!
Huge Thanks to you all as I have now reached my fundraising goal! With 2 months to go my training is in full swing. The last few weeks have been hard work but I'm hoping to be a in good shape come run day! I am hoping now to raise close to $2000 so please keep sending out links to this page. Take care all and thanks so much.
i think what you are doing is amazing and i hope everything goes well, RIP nayan woods my heart is with you.x
Hi Duncan, good luck! I have sent this link out to all the staff at CPIT. Hopefully that will help you reach your next goal of $2,000! Wishing you all the best.
Thanks Laura, I'm training hard hoping to be ready in time!
Cheers Mark, thanks so much for sharing the link. It's really humbling to be so well supported.
i keep coming back to make regular checks on your progess and im so happy for you that the donations are well over your initial target. I heard an email that Si from More FM read out from you this morning about your wife laughing in the car about Simon's deck at home. I have sent the link to Simon so Im hoping and praying he can plug your cause and lead more people to your link and donate. cheers sarah g
Thanks again for your support Sarah. Training is going well at the moment. The next few weeks are critical as I try to push that little bit more to be ready in time. I met Mal last week, what an amazing and inspiring guy he is. It is a real honour to be able to support him.
hey, just saw your story on TV3, a hard journey, but a real testiment to you being able to forgive. Will see you at the start line, and maybe the end, but you look a bit quicker than me, so might not see you much during the run - Darren
Hi Darren. I was faking it for the camera :) my usual pace is much slower! thanks for your support, look forward to seeing you day 1.
Hi Duncan, I am a former math student of yours at Lincoln High, and I'm shocked to hear about what had happened, through the TV3 website. I fondly remember your travel stories, and how you met your wife in Canada, and your laid back teaching style.
What you are doing for the foundation is truly heroic, and your forgiveness is honorable. This is inspiring stuff, I hope you are still teaching, it's such an honour to be thought by you. Please continue the cause, and my prayers are with you and your family. And I hope you get some joy and fun out of the 7 in 7 adventure! All the best!
@ Jane. Thanks so much for that. I've been thinking of you heaps lately. I hope you are doing okay. It's been a pretty tough year for us this one :(
@ Nicole. What a generous donation. Thank you so much.
@Justin. Thanks for your thoughts. I remember teaching you, you were a great guy in a wonderful class. I hope things are going well for you.
i have 4 chn and truly empathise wirth you and your family -losing a brother in a vehicle accident was a large toll at the time & for many years after- my chn have missed out on a cheeky and sport-loving uncle=my parents were understandably devastated- hope you can enjoy the rest of your family and enjoy lots of hugs together-tears are helpful too! your little lamb will be waiting for you-keep the faith and hope up!! Many are praying for you to work through your great loss ...Love is strong!!!~na Whi
Hi Angela, Nayan was just perfect. Our lives are so empty without him. Thanks for your support.
Anonymous thanks :)
Lissa, you are another great example of the wonderful people I work with.
Richard, thanks for the encouragement. Emma says hi.
Clarissa, I think you are the biggest celebrity (so far :)) to support me. An incredibly humbling experience to be supported from someone so far removed from us.
Fraser and Anthea, you guys are awesome! I wont be seeing you tomorrow for dinner, I have man flu! Am gutted about this :( would love to catch up while you are in town though.
Thanks to you all who continue to stand in support of my family and me. It makes things so much more bearable.
Wow thanks Anonymous...I think I know who you are, very generous, thank you.
Duncan, its been a little while since I checked your progress here and the donations were around the $2,000 mark and when I saw todays total, my jaw dropped. You must be so very inspired by all the support, I hope this helps with your training. Not long to go now. I thought I saw you running along by the Bexley soccer clubrooms this afternoon, you were waiting to cross the road. I didnt beep out to you like last time when I yelled you to you down Linwood Ave. You waved back, but had no idea who I was. Just wanted to let you know Im in full support and let me know how the running is going. Great to see you. sarah g
Thanks again to the anonymous donators!
Francois, thank you so much.
Pat and Tina, Emma has brought so many good people into my life, I have really appreciated your friendship over the years. Can't wait till we cross paths again next year. You are AWESOME....thanks :)
Sarah, your continued support is amazing thanks. Probably wasn't me you saw today, as I didn't run! must have been another good looking bloke ;) I had my final long training run yesterday and will just focus on freshening up over the next week or so.
All the best of luck with Day 1 Duncan! Not long to go now. My brother Gerald will be running with you too - although he reckons he'll be wayyy behind you! : )
So proud of you all doing such an amazing thing for this great charity. You don't know me, but you and your beautiful family have touched the hearts of all in mine. Wishing you peace and strength in your lives ahead, xx
Hi LaVerne thanks for taking the time to send your message. I'm looking forward to day 1 and the opportunity to meet the other runners. I expect to run fairly slowly and compete for last place, I'm sure I wont be waiting at the finish line for your brother!
Tamara thanks so much for your donation. You have been an amazing source of strength for us. Your care for Jacob and the growth he has had, from your tireless efforts, under such difficult times has been wonderful gift.
Val and Dave thank you. Your support and generosity to us have been much appreciated. I'm lucky to have had a lifetime in such an incredible family.
Hey Duncan
Really want to be there to support you on Sunday!
Do you have a start and estimated finish time?!
Just trying to get the crew organised!!!
All the best Duncan we will be willing you on every step of the way!!!!
Jo
hey duncan
just wanted to say 'again' all the best for your run on sunday. you'll do well my friend, i have every faith that you'll do your very best and you may surprise yourself and stay up there with the others, running when we are surrounded with like minded goal seekers can bring out our inner strength when we least expect it. have a great weekend, enjoy the break away, it will be a breath of fresh air. also, was great to meet you in person last weekend - the book is fantastic !!! The Woods Family are always in my thoughts ....sarah g
One Day to go!! feeling good. 8am start, hoping to be finished between 12:30 and 1
Hi folks,
Thank you for all the support over the last few Months. On Sunday I ran the Marathon. With the help of so Many my fundraising efforts have reached $4380! I have a week left to focus on a little more!
Through out this process I have journaled my progress, Yesterday I wrote my final reflection. For those who are interested, here it is.
Thanks so much,
Duncan.
28/11/10
I had a great day yesterday, I took it very easy and made sure that I ate well and kept myself hydrated. It was very hot in Wanaka and so I made every effort to keep my time in the sun to a minimum.
Having friends and family here was good, I was anxious to start with, fearing that the presence of others would lead me to stray in my final preparation. It was not the case at all. To feel supported and to have this belief around me actually honed my focus and had me feeling confident that I would get through.
Emma and I drove out to the start, Lake Hawea, My parents and a friend also came along. It was really intimidating to stand on the start line with a bunch of people who seemed supremely confident in their abilities. My fears of coming last were certainly peaking!
The marathon started right on 8am, and the pace seemed fast, I worked hard to run at my own pace and soon found I was trundling along with a group at the back of the pack. My emotions were steady I was feeling good and happy that I was running a sustainable pace.
After a few kilometres I found myself running with Mal, this was great It was nice to chat with him and was inspiring to think of what he is about to do over the next week. The scenery was beautiful there were smiles and laughter, it was good.
The first small concern I had was realising that my pace was fast, I was feeling good though so didn’t give it too much thought. I focused on the first checkpoint, I knew the second leg was shorter and that at the end of that I would be half-way there.
Running into the checkpoint was just amazing and uplifting. People were cheering and applauding my friends and family were there, Jacob even ran a little with me. I refilled quickly and set out for leg 2.
I continued to run with a group, including Mal, and initially felt good. However, at about the 15 to 16km point I started to struggle. My ankle and knee were all of sudden very painful, I stiffened up and my pace slowed. The group I was with ran away from me, and I found myself alone. I was lucky enough to be caught by a runner from Auckland, Andy. He seemed like a great guy and running alongside him I found the energy to push in to half way.
By this stage I was really noticing the heat, I later found that temperatures were as high as 31! Much hotter than anything I had ever run in before. On reflection this temperature and the fast pace were a bad combination and one which I would pay for late in the day.
Again the reception at the checkpoint was amazing, it provided such a boost and left me feeling energised as leg 3 began. I was running by myself now and did so really for the entire second half of the marathon. There were passing exchanges with others but no significant time running with them.
I enjoyed this section more than the second, I had taken some nurofen, which eased the pain and ran at a more sensible pace. I was still emotionally strong and determined. Knowing that I would run through Wanaka in this section was exciting, seeing people and closing in on the final section motivated me to keep going.
The final checkpoint arrived and I refilled my drink bottles for the final time. I knew this would be a hard final push and that there would be some hills. I completely underestimated how hard and how hilly this would be. I was only perhaps 1 km in when my body and mind began to shut down. I was experiencing intense cramp in my right leg, and the reasons for running were welling within me. I tapped the photo of Nayan constantly and tried to draw strength from him.
I became heightened to the fact that all my training over the past 4 months had been in his memory and that here I was on the brink of completion, that I was having doubts and that the journey with him was coming to a close. Tears welled up and overwhelmed me. I would force myself to regain composure and push on. This cycle continued again and again over the 2 and a quarter hours it took me to run this final section.
Eventually in the distance I recognised the finishing line, It seemed an eternity away and at this point I came close to giving up. I could rationalise that it was maybe only 4km away, but in my head it felt like 400. I was physically and emotionally at my limits. I had been running in 30 degree heat for 5 hours, I was coming to the end of my most personal and emotional journey. It was brutal.
Somehow, I persevered, I had to really there were not a lot of options other than to keep going. I would run until the cramp became to painful to continue. I would stop and stretch and run again. Each minute felt like an hour and each step sent waves of discomfort through me.
The distance slowly began to decrease, and after an eternity I found a sign that read 1.2km to the Glendu Bay Campground. The finish. It became the fist time in 2hours when some belief returned. I forced my self on and in the minutes that followed made my way to campground. The finish line was at the far end and just before coming into sight I was forced for one last time to deal with the cramp. I rounded the corner and saw it maybe 200 metres away. I was within about 20 when I was told I had to run another 500 around a set of cones before finishing. It was real blow, but with the elation of being so close I just kept going.
I turned and ran for home, took out my picture of Nayan and held him close as I ran the last few metres. Jacob again came to my side and ran the last few steps. Mal was there and met me as I finished, he wrapped me in an embrace. It was done, I had done it.
My family and friends gathered round, the emotions were raw. There was relief, satisfaction, pride and sadness. Relief that after 6 hours today, and 4 months of training it was over. Satisfaction to have achieved something that I thought beyond my capacity. Pride that I had found the strength and persistence to achieve and that I had fundraised for a great cause. So vey sad that my whole reason for doing this was taken at just 4 years of age. That his wonderful spirit is lost from the world and that my final journey with him has come to a close.
I miss holding him in my arms and looking in his eyes, I long to see his smile and hear his voice. I miss him so much.
I ran for Nayan.
hey duncan
thanks so much for the update, i have been waiting and am so glad you were able to publish it to your page so quickly. Ive enjoyed reading it and am so glad you gave lots of detail from your journey. It was very touching to read the highs and lows, you're so very realistic (which makes it so special - to relay the experience you are going through). I know it doesnt change things, but I hope with the focus you have given to the challenge of the marathon, you can continue to apply it to your future and work through the process of losing your lovely Nayan. Best wishes and hope to hear of future inspirations. sarah g
Thanks Helen and Tom,
You have pushed me over 5000!!!! I know you know how important this has been to me and how hard things have been for us this year. You're support of Emma and I is so very much appreciated.